IS RELATIONSHIP COACHING ALL IT'S CRACKED UP TO BE?
Personal or business coaching has helped thousands change their lives and achieve their goals. Yet, for the
sceptics it still is a fuzzy concept with little recognition for its benefits. Think of Celine Dion, who with a voice
coach claimed world fame. Her coach unleashed what is known today as one of the most mesmerizing voices
in the world. Is coaching just a buzzword to capture another niche market of those seeking instant gratification
and on the spot success?
Let’s take a look at good fitness coach. He gets into your mind and pinpoints what motivates you and which
exercises you enjoy. He designs a program with your physical condition and goals in mind. Your fitness coach
teaches you how to properly use equipment and reach your target. He is right at your side helping you to get
the most out of your workout. He challenges you to reach your goals and believes that you can do it. He is
always a step ahead of you and more interested in your success than you. Most people go to the gym hoping
to get results on their own. For many it is not until they get a coach that positive changes start to happen.
Relationship coaching for singles or couples is no different. Most singles plough through the smorgasbord of
hyped dating avenues hoping to find their one-and-only. Couples in unhappy relationships try to solve conflicts
on their own, wait for a miracle or leave. Reportedly, those who reach out to a coach have made remarkable
progress in relative short time spans. Coaching has become a source of real help for real people in the real
Just like in the case of Celine Dion, a relationship coach unleashes the best of you. Whether you are in a
relationship or single, a coach knows that you have everything inside to realize your relationship potential.
Relationship/dating coaching is not a long, drawn-out process. People have achieved success in as little as 4-
6 sessions. The focus of coaching is in on moving forward from where you. Coaching empowers you to move
beyond the past and take a different approach to dating or relationship conflict resolution. It is this direct, head-
on approach that leads to desired change.
Coaching is about results and positive changes. A good coach will support, guide and challenge you to action.
He or she will share new skills, knowledge and insights unavailable before. Through coaching you will gain a
new leash on love and life:
• Find out who you are
• How to ignore most dating advice
• How to be authentic
• How to challenged yourself
• How to avoid the dating traps
• How to stop dating by default
• How to focus your energy on your goals
• How to make the right choices
• How to date as a single parent
• How to prevent getting hurt
• How to create intimacy
• How to overcome insecurity
• How to trust your instinct
A good dating coach focuses on how your dating pattern spills over to every area of your life. A good
relationship coach explores how your relationship defines you and influences all aspects in your life. A coach
is able to uncover sabotaging behaviour and misconceptions. He or she is able to connect the dots without
being judgmental. Your coach becomes a mentor who helps you to take action towards a fulfilling relationship.
Based on his expertise, knowledge and passion he opens possibilities you never thought possible.
Relationship coaching is for you:
• If you value yourself and your relationship
• If you want to radically improve all your relationships
• If you want to escape pain and frustration
• If you want to gain the confidence to date
• If you are open to learn new skills
• If you are committed to your own success
Coaching has helped thousand successfully find love or dramatically improve existing relationships. It will also
help you! When choosing a coach, check his experience, credentials and ethics. Evaluate his passion and
most importantly, trust your gut feeling. Coaching should be fun and productive; make sure you really like your
coach! Isn’t it time you took care of our relationships?
© 2009 Allie Ochs, Relationship Expert, Coach, Speaker and the Author of “Are You Fit To Love?”. Her articles
are published in numerous magazines and newsletters. She has appeared on radio and TV. To order her
book or to take the Fit 2 Love! Test visit her website at www.fit2love.com. For FREE relationship/dating advice e-
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